Eleven is also a number associated with higher partnership, relationships & community, so pay attention to what is happening in these areas of your life right now as well.

 With all the intense energies that are coming at all of us right now from all directions, this really is NOT the best time to try “going at it all alone”, whatever “it” is.   Whatever it is you are trying to learn or accomplish, you will do it better, faster, and easier with the support of the right like-minded people…whether that be a partner, loved-one, friend, teacher, therapist, healer, doctor, or community. 

Even Jesus had his twelve disciples to help & support him.  Therefore, it only makes sense that you could also benefit from seeking out friendships and relationships that can support you in your time of transformation. I especially recommend investing in being part of a community that will assist you in your higher growth.  If you find yourself feeling “overwhelmed”, “isolated”, or “alone” during this period, it is probably time to open yourself up to supportive & nurturing relationships.

On the other hand, this does not mean that you should get involved with “just anyone” or “just any” community.  It has to be a good fit for you.  Any community or relationship entered into at this time needs to be spiritually-expansive & supportive, and not just something that you are getting involved in because it seems convenient or expedient.    Also, 11:11:11 does consist of many ones, and one is the number of independence & inner strength.  Therefore, it is not a time at all to give up your identity, or “lose yourself” in a relationship or group involvement. 

In fact, some of you who are reading this right now might find that you are in a cycle where you feel very much alone and can’t seem to find the support you need, even though you have tried reaching out to others.  If this is the case, and especially if you have had a tendency in the past to be overly-dependent on others, then  this may be a time for you to learn how to lean more on your own inner strength, rather than relying so much on others to do things for you.

Eleven calls us to have balance in ALL things, and especially in relationships.  If you are reading this right now, then probably one of your major issues at the moment is how to have balanced relationships or how to be in “balanced community” with others.  This means not spending too much or too little time with others, and more importantly, allowing yourself to feel connected with others without becoming overwhelmed by that connection.

What this means is that you may now be feeling the strong need for either more—or less—time & involvement with others. 

For me personally, I have been pulling back within myself, spending more time writing, meditating, dancing, and attuning with nature, and less time checking my e-mail or phone messages so vigilantly.  I haven’t totally isolated myself from relationships, but I am temporarily pulling back within myself, and spending time with just a few close friends & clients, at least until I feel the urge again to do otherwise.  This is what I need to do to get balanced & centered within myself right now.  However, everyone experiences the 11:11:11 energy differently. 

Like me, you may need to temporarily hibernate or “unplug” for a little while so you can be closer with yourself and perhaps just a small circle of intimate friends.  Or, your experience may be that you have been deep within yourself for awhile, and you now need to reach out to others in friendship & communion.  Also, you may experience different urges in regards to different kinds of relationships.  There may be a shift towards or away from either one-on-one relationships or group relationships.

Each person has a different experience of the 11:11:11 energy, and each of us must do different things to achieve balance in our relationships.  Ultimately, your intuition will show you what it is you need to do to best achieve your optimal balance point.